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by Doug McClelland
[Editor: See here for our standard note on confidentiality and anonymity.]
(posted Febuary, 2006)
From: Gr8sucker
Subject: Saving cum
Question: I have a buddy that I see whenever I
am in his city. He shoots huge loads, which I happily take orally
for him. He has a fantasy about jacking off and saving his cum for
a few days before I go to see him next month so that we can play
with it and possibly he can feed it to me.
The problem is that we are both concerned that it is possible to safely save his cum for a few days and the proper method for doing so. Is there a safe way to save up cum for future play such as refrigeration? If so, how long is it safe to store it? Thanks for your help.
Dear Gr8sucker: There is nothing like a huge load to please us cocksuckers. Whether you like it down your throat or sprayed across your chest, a big load of cream is a beautiful thing.
Having your buddy save those huge loads for the two of you to play with is certainly possible. In the fridge would work for a couple of days. The best way might be for him to put it in a sealing container in the freezer. He could then add each load to the container as he jacked off in anticipation of your visit. When you arrive you guys could just set it out to let it come to room temperature. Or you could pop it in the microwave to defrost it (don’t cook it) so it would be warm. It should be safe to store frozen cum for lengthy periods.
From: JohnnyB
Subject: Straight butt fucking
Question: I’ve got a straight buddy who I
can talk to totally freely about sex. I was sort of trying to test
his boundaries by talking about how great it was to fuck my boyfriend’s
tight ass. To my surprise he replied that he too enjoyed fucking
a tight ass, namely his girlfriend’s. I said that I just did
not believe him but he said lots of straight couples include anal
sex as part of their repertoire. This was a total revelation to
me. Do you think that straight guys who fuck their girlfriends in
the ass are repressed gays? My buddy says no but now I’m jacking
off imagining him fucking my boyfriend.
Dear JohnnyB: I too used to think of anal sex as the defining gay sex act. The thing that we did that the straights didn’t do. But apparently a lot goes on below the surface in straight sexuality.
The Kinsey Report on male sexuality in 1948 is the largest study ever done. It reported 11% of heterosexual males reported a frequency of anal sex ranging from a single attempt to often. See the entire study at http://www.indiana.edu/~kinsey/.
More recently, in 2002, a Sexual Behaviour study done by the US Center for Disease Control reported the following: “For males, the proportion who have had anal sex with a female increases from 4.6 percent at age 15, to 34 percent at ages 22–24. For females, the proportion who have had anal sex with a male increases from 2.4 percent at age 15, to 32 percent at age 22–24." One in three women admits to having had anal sex by age 24. By ages 25 to 44, the percentages rise to 40 for men and 35 for women. And that's not counting the 3.7 percent of men aged 15 to 44 who've had anal sex with other men.” For the entire study visit this page http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/pubs/pubd/ad/361-370/ad362.htm or download the document directly here http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad362.pdf.
So I think your friend is not too far out of the mainstream. Both these studies reveal that people are doing a whole lot more in private than is generally acknowledged in public. If this is the case I suppose that these guys are not all closet cases. I expect your fantasy of your buddy fucking your boyfriend will likely remain a fantasy. But since you are so open with each other you might try suggesting that mens’ asses are way better to fuck than womens’ and offer him your boyfriend as a test sample.
From: Gary K.
Subject: Testosterone
Question: Hello Doug. You recently gave advice
to someone asking for more natural alternatives to Viagra, etc.
You did not mention testosterone supplements. Isn't this a viable
route for keeping your dick hard? Thanks.
Dear Gary: Yes. Testosterone supplements should help keep your dick hard. As we age men go through andropause, the male equivalent of menopause. Our body’s production of testosterone slows, producing a number of symptoms. As well, some men may experience a decline in the production of testosterone as a result of an illness, such as diabetes. This can cause them to experience symptoms such as fatigue, weakness, depression, and sexual problems. Your doctor can order a series of blood tests to evaluate hormone levels, including a blood test to measure testosterone levels in your blood. If testosterone levels are low, replacement therapy may help relieve symptoms of loss of interest in sex, depression, and fatigue. Your doctor would need to prescribe the testosterone supplements, which come in a variety of delivery forms including by injection, patches, cream, gel or oral form.
Men considering testosterone replacement therapy should get their PSA levels checked as testosterone replacement therapy could increase the risk of prostate cancer. (A PSA blood test identifies a man's risk for prostate cancer.) Other risks associated with hormone supplementation, particularly with injections, include the risk of stroke, an increase in liver toxicity and breast development.
To help increase testosterone production naturally, some suggest men take zinc and vitamins C and E. Also suggested are herbs, such as muira puama, and L-arginine to increase a man's libido.
Testosterone is also prescribed to some HIV/Aids patients to help build muscle mass. Friends of mine getting shots for this reason have told me that they frequently experience heightened sex drives after their injections. Patches seem to give the smoothest absorbstion rate.
Another supplement that increases vigor is Human Growth Hormone. A number of studies have shown that HGH seems to knock years off your physical age and increase strength and energy including sexual energy. However HGH is very expensive and requires a prescription. You would have a difficult time convincing a Doctor to prescribe it for you. But anti-aging experts say HGH is the first thing that can really turn back the physical clock.
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